Mediation is an alternative way to reach agreements in divorce, dissolution of domestic partnership, custody and support issues, and post-marital issues. Your mediator is an impartial guide who assists the decision making and focuses the agenda and conversation. If you are parents, the mediator will guide you towards a child-centered agreement while respecting both parents’ rights and the children's needs.
Mediation has many benefits:
Decreases negative feelings and misunderstandings by identifying each party’s goals and concerns. Learning to communicate around difficult issues can make your future better with less conflict and easier problem-solving, which is especially important if you have children together.
Offers flexibility by finding solutions that work for your unique situation, without the limitations of the court system. You are in control of the process and outcome.
Protects your privacy by moving the negotiations from a public courtroom to a private space. Mediation meetings are confidential.
Works with your schedule instead of the court’s overburdened calendar which sometimes delays resolutions considerably.
Conserves resources. Litigation is also costly so in addition to saving time, you are also likely to save money. Typically both parties share the cost of mediation.